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Live Life :: Love Life
~Nick

U-Haul Inspiration

Isn't it funny how some of the best inspiration can come from the most peculiar places. You could be in the drive through or waiting in line at the market and all of a sudden that award winning "ah-ha" moment hits you like a 17' U-Haul truck. You pick your self up off the ground and check the seat of your pants making sure they weren't soiled in the act of this spontaneous moment of genius. When Inspiration hits, it hits hard and its a beautiful thing. 

As a Creative (Graphic Designer) I encounter this all the time. Often I'll be working on a project for a month, with days to go before deadline, working on little sleep because of a massive "designers block". Then all of a sudden Im sitting at Applebee's and theres my inspiration sitting there on the menu or advertisement block on the table. Haha. This is no joke, I cant tell you how many times Ive requested to take home a cup coaster, placemat or advertisement piece because I was inspired by it for my current projects.

It's not always a new idea that hits a home run worthy of Babe Ruth's applause. Sometimes, its an idea that has been present for some time, but has now been pumped up on inspirational steroids and holds that much more meaning to you. 

Going back to the topic of the U-Haul truck in the first paragraph. A few months ago I rented a U-Haul truck to help in my moving back to Michigan. A few days before, I had posted a couple blog posts here about being present and in the moment. Half way home I look down to my instruments bezel on my dash and notice a sticker U-Haul had so kindly furnished in my truck saying "SLOW DOWN AND LIVE". WOAH... Totally sells my point right! Now I realize the actual intentions of this tag were to promote safe driving. But hey reality is in perception right, so the way I look at it is "slow down and appreciate life yo"! Take time to smell the roses as they say. What a beautiful saying "Slow down and live", don't be so quick to move to the next adventure of life that you forget to experience the adventure you have in front of you!

Be on the look-out for your next burst of spontaneous U-Haul Inspiration! You never know when and where it might show up.

Live Life :: Love Life

~ Nick

The Secret to "The Secret"

As human beings we love meaningful conversation! This is a truth I think we can all agree upon. I, personally, strive to surround myself with a peer group that will indulge this sweet tooth, and when this occurs I light up like a Christmas tree! One of my favorite topics to discuss is, the way we perceive the world and the occurrences that we come upon each and every day. Life is full of ups and downs, but its how we choose to respond thats the key to our happiness and fulfillment.

Im known for being an extremely positive individual. Its who I am, and I've often told people I can find the gift in just about any situation that is presented. With this being said, I must explain that I don't just ignore the negatives that we all encounter through this journey we know as life. To dismiss these encounters is to only experience a portion of life, because it is only when we embrace negativity and adversity and overcome it that we can move forward towards our goals, dreams and ultimately the best-version-of-ourselves. The keyword however is embrace, not empower or dwell upon.

"Dwelling on the negative simply contributes to its power" ~Shirley MacLaine

This has been a reoccurring subject lately, specifically in two very powerful conversations with two very good friends of mine. The first was with a friend and client of mine Kris Mathis (KrisMathis.com) an outstanding speaker and author out of my hometown of Grand Rapids Michigan. The other was with my pastor, mentor and dear friend Trent Booth (LifeWalk Church). This topic of conversation is a common occurrence throughout my circle of friends and influence, but what I found to be interesting was the subject of the book "The Secret" by Rhonda Byrne that was brought up in both conversations. If your unfamiliar with the book its discusses the idea of the "Law of Attraction", being if you think about anything hard enough and picture it happening it will happen to you.

Before I dive into the thoughts of my recent discussions, realize I do believe this book brings up some valid points, however I also feel it is one sided. And although I don't entirely agree with all the view points stated throughout the book I do believe in the idea of your thoughts largely impacting your life, and the idea of choosing what you think about wisely, which I've discussed in recent blog posts.

Going back to my conversations this last week, the topic that was brought up was the idea of adversity and negativity and how we react to it. This is one of the issues we had with the book, is the fact that its focused on nothing but the positive, and if we just think positive thoughts we can have anything we want as if we found some genii to grant our every wish. The positives are great, and you should absolutely put emphasis on them, but as I stated above, to dismiss any negativity or adversity would be ignorance. Any goal or dream worth having is going to have adversity along the way. The bigger the goal, the bigger the obstacle! To just sit in front of such adversity and pretend it doesn't exist would never get you towards your goal. And this is one of the main reasons why people fail to hit their dreams, is because of resources like "The Secret" sugar coating the truth and not allowing people to realize that there are going to be obstacles along the way. In fact we are shaped with this sort of thought process from the time we were young kids. Its true you can be anything you want to be, but what we leave out is that it takes perseverance to accomplish their dreams. Its as if we feel we will scare kids out of their dreams, so rather than empowering them with the tools they need to encounter these hurtles we provide the "yellow brick road" version.

"Adversity tests us from time to time and it is inevitable that this testing continues during life" ~Walter Annenberg

I agree that we should focus on the positives, but thats not to say we refuse to shine light on the negatives as well. We need resources that will send the message that adversity will show up at different levels along our journey. And even more important than that is when it does show up that we don't try to ignore it or sweep it under the rug, but instead we embrace it with open arms, knowing that its all part of the process. The reality is we need the adversity, it makes the dream worth having. It molds us into the persons we need to be to accomplish the goals we set out to hit. It allows us to stand at the finish line and look back knowing it wasn't easy, and thats what made it worth it.

"A man is insensible to the relish of prosperity until he has tasted adversity" ~Rosalind Russell

Live Life :: Love Life
~Nick

Life Liberty and the Pursuit of Laziness

So I admit I've been slacking severely in my blogging lately. I could try and blame it on being busy in other areas of my life, and that "I just haven't had the time to write". But the truth of the matter is I've been lazy... not much more I can say than that. Its as my pastor often says "You have time for what you make time for". This is very true in all areas of our life, think about how often we try and sell our friends, family, colleagues and even ourselves at times, that we are to busy to do this or that. Many times we push tasks or events to the side that are an integral part of our life, tasks that if done would help us feel more fulfilled and lead us to the Best-version-of-ourselves, but instead we fill this time with useless wastes of time and "filth" like Facebook and tv.

We pretend this is a secret to us, but in reality this is well known. See, I know that blogging and writing is better for my creativity not only as a Creative in my profession as a Designer and Creative Director, but also to my creativity as an individual. At the same time I shrug it off to the side and put less meaningful things in front of it on the to-do list. Also I read everyday but very seldom is it my bible. Now, I know there is no other book that is as important to my moving closer to my ultimate purpose, but for whatever reason I try to reason that I haven't had time to read it. So my point is, going back to my Pastor's quote "We have time for what we make time for", if we truly examine our schedule and prioritize our tasks we can get past this, and move into a productive balanced life where theres no need to apologize for not getting to the importance that comes our way.

Although I have been lacking in the blogging department, these last couple months have been productive none the less. I am excited to say that my personal business has finally taken the leap I've been looking for to take me to the next level. The exciting thing is Im taking on more work then I have ever before, but am empowered at the fact that I am now forced to develop the skills and mindset to climb closer to the next platform on my journey to the Best-version-of-myself. On top of this honestly busy schedule, I look forward to having blogging as a constant part of my schedule to document my journey and lend my thoughts along the way. I am excited to have whatever readers I gather along the way along for the ride.

Live Life :: Love Life

~Nick

One little word

Be!

What an amazing word! At a glance this small word may appear to be an insignificant combination of the second and fifth letter in our english alphabet, but combined these letters bare a world of meaningfulness, an intense source of significance even. Believe it or not, but this word has kept me up at night. This word excites me and gives me strength moving forward. Imagine that... out of all the letter combinations running through my mind throughout the day, these two simple letters can at times hold more weight then any other word in my mind. Coupled with other words, these two letters can move mountains.

"Be the change you wish to see in the world" ~Mahatma Gandhi

According to thefreedictionary.com the dominant definition of the word be is:

• To exist in actuality; have life or reality.

Put simply to be is to live! This is how writers like William Shakespeare are able to put such weight on this simple word, like in the famous line from his play Hamlet:

"To be, or not to be" ~William Shakespeare's Hamlet Act3 Scene1

So why am I putting so much emphasis on this one word you may ask. Well to know me, you must know that I choose the words that I focus on very carefully. I choose words and thoughts that will move me forward to my current goals and ultimately towards the best version of myself, and this word in my mind give me ownership over my abilities, actions and my direction. The constant use of this word means to set the solid foundation and expectations of what my life consists of, and to settle for anything less would be unacceptable. To be is to not just be alive; but to live life to its fullest, and to love the life we've been blessed with. To accept anything less than this best version of myself, is to fall short of Being me!

Be Love

Be Grateful

Be Present

Be-lieve

Be Forgiving

Be Strong

Be Proactive

Be!

Live Life :: Love Life

~Nick

Beuller... Beuller..

So I caught my self today, doing something that I know most of us have been guilty of in the past. I was out on the beach chillaxin, as us beach boys like to say, but instead of enjoying the spectacular beauty around me, I was on my blackberry feeding my unfortunate Facebook addiction. When I finally pried my attention away from my screen of useless status updates, I looked to the sky and seen an amazingly surreal like picture of a perfectly molded cloud highlighted by the suns rays, who still energetic despite their 93 million mile journey they've just sustained (Thats 150 million kilometers for those outside the states), were shining through the particles in the sky causing visible rays of golden light as if God him self was playing a game of hide and seek behind this Cumulous mass. It was at this moment that I realized that, had I kept meaninglessly feeding my attention into my phone I would have missed this absolutely stunning event that was occurring whether I was present at the moment or not. Moments later the clouds moved along down the shoreline, testing other beach goers attentions Im sure, and I was left to sit on the beach and ponder this idea of how more often then not we remove ourselves from the present whether intentionally or unintentionally.

"Present-moment living, getting in touch with your now, is at the heart of effective living. When you think about it, there really is no other moment you can live. Now is all there is, and the future is just another present moment to live when it arrives." ~Wayne Dyer 

Think about how often we remove ourselves from the present moment. How often are you in a conversation with someone and your mind begins to drift into thoughts of what would, could or should. How many times have you heard someone say "Im sorry I didn't catch that, could you say it again". Or even worse how many times have you seen someone in the middle of a conversation pull out their phone to check a text that just came in? Maybe you've done this in the past, I know I have unfortunately. One of the new commons in Restaurants is to see a table of unengaged teens all having their own mini conversations on their Droids, Iphones and blackberries. The only conversation that happens between them is the brief exclamations of what one of their friends just tweeted or posted on Facebook. Other times it may be that you were completely disengaged from the entire day. Have you ever sat down for the evening and tried to recollect the days happenings and came to a blank, as if the day had hardly existed at all.

We far to often disconnect ourselves from the present, in order to either chase after an idea that something technology wise is in desperate need of our energy and attention, or it could be that we've spent the day worrying about something in the past, or dreading something in the future. Its strange actually, they have done numerous studies to prove that our emotional state of mind and stress levels of when we are worrying about or dreading something that has happened or may happen, is the same as when the situation actually happens. So that means that each time we are thinking about that situation, emotionally we are either reliving it, or living it over and over before it has even happened. Now obviously this isn't to say that you should go through life without a plan, or to never think about what has or will happen. My point is to be present with life around you and don't let your mind draw you away from the beauty of life, whether it be the scenery or even the conversations and people around you.

"Yesterday is history, tomorrow is a mystery, today is God's gift, that's why we call it the present" ~Joan Rivers

Life is much more fulfilling when living in the present. Like the sound Ben Stein's famous monotoned role call from the movie Ferris Bueller's Day Off... Are you living in the present, or is life calling out your name?



Live Life :: Love Life
~Nick

State of Gratitude!

I admit it!! I forget to listen to my own advice at times. Sometimes we get so caught up in our personal circumstances that we forget that we may already have the answers/solutions were looking for. In my opinion, I feel that if we were to remove ourselves from most of the biggest struggles we have in life and look at them from a distance we would realize that the situation itself isn't too overwhelming at all. Chances are we are just giving too much energy to the wrong side of the situation, or it could be that we shouldn't be giving the situation energy at all. I have found that one of the best ways to pry our attention away from the struggles in our mind and life is to switch our focus and energy over to a state of gratitude! Its very difficult to focus on anything negative when your mind is overwhelmed with grateful thoughts!

"When you are grateful fear disappears and abundance appears" ~Anthony Robbins

Tonight... I am full of gratitude!!! Regardless of what ever circumstances you may be facing right now, realize you live a wonderful and blessed life!! Be sure to take time to bask in all you have to be grateful for.


Live Life :: Love Life
~Nick